I am glad to see your PMA back. When your PMA is up you are in ther drivers seat, you know how to DB and doa good job of it.
Are you still reading "Purpose Driven Life"? It saved me from backsliding, XW told me that she had seen OM1 in Jan., again she had lied, she told me back Jan. that she had to work late for a training session she was doing. This was BS she flew to OK City to see OM1. Pre DB and the book I would have freaked out. It still burns me, but in the big picture it means nothing.
Just remember the PAST IS THE PAST! About the court thing she is nuts, but nobody on this earth could explain it to her now. Just keep DBing, the court date is behind you bud, the past is the past. THE AMAZING THING IS HER MARRIED THE SAME LADY THREE TIMES, THEY ARE HAPPIER THAN EVER, HE SAID THE DIFFERENCE IS THEY HAVE THE LORD IN THEIR LIFE The gentlemen is in his mid 30's and has been happily married the third time to the same women for the last 5 yrs..