The decision to "move on" is all yours, pal. X has only as much to say about that as you allow her. She had her chance, and her other chance, and her "bonus" chance, and so on. She kept pushing until she got her D.
You've mentioned a few times how you think she needs to see the full result of what she's done. You've set some boundaries on what she can and can't do in the R. What's the word for the freedom you give yourself, or the way you go beyond "false boundaries" that don't help anyone?
I'm not saying you should rush out looking for someone. But, hey, you're not married now. If you're ready for it, and the right sitch with the right woman comes along, you should be free of any "false boundaries."
Only you know if you're ready. Or maybe, as a friend told me, you "know that you don't know." That's cool, if that's the sitch.
As usual, K finds a way to say something small with lots of words. To trim it down to size:
You owe X nothing more. When you're ready for someone new, you'll know.
Thanks,
K
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