As for the comment about dating a young twenty-something because of their lack of baggage. They may have less baggage, but think about all the drama! When XH and I were not together last summer he had a very short R with a 19 year old. He was overjoyed that this young thing wanted him. That was until after two weeks of "dating" her, she wanted to move in! When he told her it was over, she drank peroxide and ended up in the hospital. SO I'd take baggage over that kind of drama any day!