Some women in their early twenties also have 'baggage' - it depends on their life. I was a mother of 3 by the time I was 22, and that's baggage! I suppose that means I am 'written off' for a lot of men, and I'm only 28. It's one of the reasons I don't try to find another R, that, and still being too involved with X.
And if women are getting more into casual R's, then I'm proud NOT to be one of them.
Gabe, hypothetically, if you asked me for a 'casual' R (which I am just saying as a purely fictional situation), I would chase you out of my house for the indecent suggestion, LOL!
To me there is no point loving and there's no point dating and there's no point in sex unless you do it with your whole heart, and if men want to be half-hearted and trapped by their own fear of commitment, then they can expect to get back what they put in - half a heart.
I just hate casual sex - ugh. Gabriel, don't go down that road, it won't feel any good. I've been there, done that.
