What a scene! Must have been a little embarrassing. Good job on keeping calm. My 1st XW still lays into me like that on occasion. I know how that kind of thing can hang with you and get the adrenaline pumping a little longer than necessary. Hopefully you just blew it off as coming from a woman who currently doesn't have her act together at all. Funny how the WA struggles.
Well Gabe, not a great way to have a 10 year anniversary. Hope you find a fun distraction.
OCKIM, excellent post. I wonder how many truly completely abandon hope. But it seems to run with a lot of the advice...get a life, detach, quit pursuing...if there is any hope that they will come back. I think giving up any hope is difficult, but for starters a person should at least not let the WA/X know you have any hope.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
Good job on keeping calm. My 1st XW still lays into me like that on occasion. I know how that kind of thing can hang with you and get the adrenaline pumping a little longer than necessary. Hopefully you just blew it off as coming from a woman who currently doesn't have her act together at all. Funny how the WA struggles. 
