Hi All:

I have been quiet lately for two reasons:

1. I received the D papers yesterday. W handed them to me with "here are the papers for you to sign". I guess it struck me like a bolt of lightning although I could see it coming from the horizon. I am just internally tired and quiet right now. Amazing, the papers came on the heels of a very pleasant weekend with W and D3. We spent lots of time together playing family! And then, bam, here are the papers! Well, I must hold the honor of going through the most uncontested, plain vanilla divorce. It's a total anticlimax. It seems however like the lawyer that my W hired is actually more interested in playing hardball than W is. For example, apart from all the usual wording about a marriage that is broken beyond repair (my a$$ ) there was crap in there about W being the "temporary and permanent physical custodian" while we were to have joint "custody". Of course, that one will be on my dead body (with A1 steak sauce dribbled all over it). So I called W and she said she thought that was not right and was going to ask the lawyer to change it. That is all I am going to fight about. Money and possessions I give a damn about, but nobody is going to mess with my rights with D3.


2. She handed me papers on the first day of classes and I am so under a heavy load this semester.

So, I am lurking and following everybody and checking on everybody. But I am just too deep in the muck to see clearly enough to write anything energetic right now.

UD

The 3 laws of DBing: 1. PMA is critical to DBing. 2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical. 3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.