I know I'm stereotyping here (sorry Merrick and others): Just noticed that your W is a lawyer. Read somewhere that attorneys are very hard to DB with (or if the LBS, to DB), due to all the training to be antagonists in an interaction.
She seems more patient that most A's, having thought about things for 3 yrs. Just know that she'll have to learn a different perspective than perhaps the one she gained in law school.
