You got to admire your patience and stamina. Good job on GAL activities. Is your intent to just go with the current flow or to shake things up a little bit by doing more pursuing? I guess since you've made strides perhaps the status quo is for the best.
Let us know how the MIL thing works out. I for one think that she won't be nearly the source of support that your wife probably anticipates. I agree with Dogma. Watch what you say to MIL. One thing that might be helpful is to point out positives that you see in your W to your MIL...(ie she's so smart...etc whatever). Those kind of things can be indirect ways of providing WOA without actually pursuing.
How do you manage to even go dark for a couple days. I'm really struggling with just a few. Or do you have contact with her most days?
Well good luck. I hope this is your last thread here and then you move to piecing.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt