and all very weird after two years. I learned though they may not appear to be pressing the D, they have not forgotten it.
You have taken great strides in turning the focus on yourself and D3. Continue this.
As for MIL, this is a sticky issue. During the M, MIL and I had a pretty good rapport and even after the bomb and separation we talked a lot. Then I found out she was telling W everything we talked about and telling me everything she and W talked about. In the last year since D, I have seen her briefly once and talked to her Mon on S9 birthday VERY briefly and that is it. So be careful.