Ok ok no more lectures, but I will at least say that I do agree with Bruce. I have been there, done that. When I stopped being so accomodating my husband took notice and even started responding. Now I find out that he has been riding by my house. Why, after all this was where he had run from long and hard......
My point being, when you change the dance, you take away their comfort zone, and if they are not ready to call it a day, they'll be back for another dance! I guess this turned into a lecture, huh?
Be good while I am away, cause I'll be checking!!!!