It's late, but I just had to answer the questions, didn't I?
Quote: She had complete run of the house she does not live in while you were gone?
She was taking care of the cats. Don't know why she chose to clean house.
Quote: And then you saw on more than one occasion and were quite physical but you are ok with your situation, which is what?
Which is...the strangest divorce I could possibly envision. It's the divorce in which I drag her son on several of my vacations, she thinks I'm mad at her if I don't call, she is on again/off again on whether she wants to have physical contact, but primarily when she wants comfort, she still has access to my house and is not afraid to use that access, and I think I'm starting to get used to being divorced, and in fact may be swinging towards prefering things that way.
You know what was weird. The last time I was at my mom's house I was still married, it was one of the last times we ML, and she spent a great deal of time passing e-mails to a person she felt was her "soul mate" and a person that she'd forever love. Funny, but that person is yesterday's news and here I am....today's garbage.
Goodnight.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
