Quote: I am wondering if you should stay pulled back until it becomes clear that she wants to make a sustained connection?
Don't know. This weekend was simply about having fun and essentially just doing whatever I felt like. But you're right. I would like to keep in control rather than picking up the rope. I was having the same thought process, but my problem is I a) am not sure what works anymore (the closest we have ever been was around Mother's day but she did most of that initiating and also the stepping back) and b) I'm not quite sure what I want. So in that regard maybe I should step back and put the onus on her to convince me she's worth it. Thanks for the advice.
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