You are nothing if not persistent, maybe not effective, but still persistent. I also notice you are both back on the pursuing track, after you went a few days without calling.
She perceives you as being more available than you were when you first were working through the new realizations. She may almost believe the situation is back where it was.
Although in your mind, you have reached some apex, some point where her behavior does not affect you. That is good news.
