I woke up to another dream w/ex yelling at me today. I've been having a similar dream 2-4x a week since I've started detaching from him. Funny part w/today's dream, ex had white streaks in his hair (he's aging, I guess!!) but there just isn't enough hair on his head in real life to be like that!!
Wes, the reality isn't 'grim'; you and the boys were always a family. The way I see it, me and my k's are family, and I 'chose' to share my family w/ex - he WA and therefore it's his loss, not mine. T