I've got a little vent. Yes, I snooped a bit, just curious what the X has been writing her friends about. She seems to be joining an elite group of women that are either divorcing or desperate to divorce. Her advice..."sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do." Isn't it enough to F..k up her own life without dragging down people that she considers friends. I don't think a person that is unhappy with their marriage should be treated to the excellent advice of the WAW.
I'm glad I peeked. She's still in a state where she is feeling entirely justified and considering divorce the ultimate solution. As though I'm surprised. But getting a peek at the way she thinks really helps me. Unless I saw something really convincing I couldn't possibly ever trust her with my heart. I think she's working on her own little bb. It's called divorcebuster busters.
Yeah, she called tonight....short chat. I didn't make any invites of any type and am not going to. She can have this life she chose. Good luck to her.
It's really nothing to me if she encourages divorce as an excellent solution. I'm sure they didn't need that much encouragement. I just think I realized tonight just how sick of her I am. It's time to stop standing with one foot in and one foot out. I think I'll put the other foot out the door.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt