Wes, You're doing all the right things. I love VB, BTW. My D plays on a summer sand league. Just keep the PMA, stay busy, make yourself happy and all will be well soon.
And.....really, I don't have my act together at all. I'm in the "dating" world and it confuses the hell out of me!!! Had to drink 2 glasses of wine before my first one. But, I'm happier than I've ever been before and that is worth everything to me. You will be too.