Greetings,

I would hypothesize, with no statistical reference, dating for the LBH would not induce the WAW (X) to reconsider, return, reevaluate the previous R. I sense it would relieve the WAW, letting her know you are moving on and no longer pining away for an unrealistic R.

I guess there comes a time when we can wait no more, but will always wonder about R's left behind.