Quote: I made the changes to myself and I'm happy with who I am. Now basically the ball is in her court. She has to come to the conclusion or not whether she wants to pursue a R with me. But I'm not waiting in the off chance she will. It's not fair to myself.
I think this is a good attitude to have. XH and I went months without contact and conversation. Had other relationship in that time but some how found ourselves always coming back to each other. So maybe you really getting on with your life, completely, will bring the two of you back together at some point. I believe that if two lives are meant to be connected nothing will stop that. There maybe time when there is distance but they will continue to come back together, for better or worse. This also may be a blessing or a curse. (I'm still out on this one!)
But honestly, I don't think you're ready for another R. Maybe friendly dating, but not a R. It wouldn't be fair to you or the other person.
