Quote: it seems like WAH's respond more rapidly to dating that WAWs. It seems like dating on the part of the LBH either pisses the WAW off or makes no impact. However, WAH's can't handle their LBW's dating and seem to have a violent reaction (i.e. they seem to come back faster). Am I wrong?
I intuitively believe this is true...men get fired up to competition. The WAH may not want their LBW, but they'll be damned if they let someone else have them. Kind of like a kid that doesn't play with a toy until someone else wants to play with it.
I don't perceive that women are this way. Perhaps the women would like to chime in. But have you noticed a whole lot of WAWs coming back at all? Or coming back because the LBH has stayed faithful for months and months...even after divorced? I'll bet you more women respond to guys moving on than guys that stay in one place and make it clear they are holding out hope for the WAW. But jealousy isn't the reason to date.....getting a life...moving on...having fun...trying to have a complete fulfilling life are reasons to date. That is, if you feel that dating is something that will increase your happiness, self-esteem, or whatever.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
