The sitches seem to be getting more complex all over this forum. Either that or several of us are merely becoming more aware.
I've been thinking about what I've seen in my sitch and others, and wondering how to do the following: - Keep resentments to a minimum: likely thru heavy GAL work and low expectations. - Drop the rope and move on, without slamming the door shut: Maybe thru comfortable acknowledgment of remaining love/affection, with continual focus on meeting healthily one's own needs, including those of affiliation, love, and female companionship.
This brings up dating and the remaining possibility of the Aha! moment of the WAW, when she eventually clicks to "What was I thinking! I want him back!" In a few convos with Kevin and others, this has been explored. What happens to the odds of this occuring if one is already dating?
In my sitch, W has a truckload of false pride, and making a latenight phonecall or showing up on my doorstep would be much less likely if she thought that I might have another woman in my bed. Do we proceed with our lives regardless and assume that the odds are so slim that why bother? Or is there a way to move on without hurting such possibilities.
