Great post. Regarding your question on my thread on going dark. I see WAW almost everyday due to D3 pick-up and drop-off situation. Also, we spend a lot of time on the weekend with D3 for the same reason. But I have had periods of going dark from WAW. It was very very difficult in the beginning but over time it has gotten easier as I have pursued some passions through GAL (running marathon, tennis) and read myself to a decent place in my mind (Thich Nhat Hanh, Dalai Lama, Deida, others...). It takes a lot of work to get to the place where you are free from the nagging feeling of emptiness. And of course some days are more difficult than others. Like today, I have had bomb 3 dropped on me. But it was a good convo with W and I am in balance.
Anyway you can fedex that gorgeous chick over to Iowa?
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.