Are you still out there, or did you ditch us? We pretty much did a hijack on you. I hope all the crossfire is helping in some sort of way.
Chrissy and NR:
We need to enjoy the forest and the trees. Number of times per week may be astronomical and yet not be rewarding if all that is happening is laying there spreading one's legs. If the LD wants to count every time he/she lets ML happen to him/her as filling the SO love tank, that is stinkin' thinkin'. Even HD people can see through that. If you're going to put forth the effort of spreading your legs, please be there as a person as well. Sex is 90% mental, 10% physical; you can't fake the mental part and expect it will move your partner or your relatiohship anywhere.
