The bare bones facts

[nightrunner]

Understood. Why can the sex issues not be worked on first before the other issues. Some men, including myself, can hold resentment if they are not feeling loved by their wife. This can lead to many of the problems that some people want to work on before they agree to start having sex. Why can the sex not come first? I am not trying to come down on anyone or be superior. I am here too to try and work on my marital issues. Just trying to show another side to an issue. Thanks, Andy