Maybe they should stop telling us when we are young that our bodies belong to US and that no one has the right to make us do things that we don't want to do?
Did someone hold a gun to your head and make you get married? Did you listen to the vows you said when you got married? Your body is yours, and you are correct. No one can tell you what to do with it, but you made a choice to marry your husband, and with that choice, you agreed to be a wife, and to love, honor, and cherish him, and he made the same vows to you. I never understand what is so hard about that. I do not think people actually know what they are saying when they get married.
I am sure your husband is not perfect, I am sure you are not either. None of us are. I have a new thing I do. Whenever I catch myself looking at others who might be doing something idiotic, whether it be driving or at the mall, or at Disneyworld, I make sure and tell myself " We are the same, there is no difference between that person I am looking at and thinking "dumba#s" and myself. So I am not sitting on some high place here judging you. I am the same, and going through some of the same stuff your husband is. I love my wife more than anything in the world. I crave her 24 hours a day. Her touch, her kisses, her love. When I do not get those things, my world is a little darker. The birds do not sing as pretty, the wine does not taste as sweet. This can really affect the way a person acts towards someone they have been telling for a long time "Can you just give me a drink of water", when you are holding an entire pitcher of it. Sorry for the rant....what was I talking about?
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
