IAs for H, I guess I just expect him to look after himself, since that's what I have to do. I know, it sounds like a punishment thing, and I guess in a way it is. All the hurt and anguish over this issue has just built up this huge wall.
So what your saying is that he controls his sex life even tho you don't help him out? So if he takes control by finding someone else to have sex with that would be okay with you? It should be because your pushing him that way.
Quote...."getting more & more angry, thoughts like 'If he loved me he wouldn't do this', running through my head."
Don;t you think he has thought like.....IF SHE LOVED ME SHE WOULDN'T be DOING THIS TO ME!!!"
If your not going to address YOUR problem of not having sex with your husband are you willing to release him from his vow to forsake all other because you are not keeping your vow to have and hold, to LOVE, and love is physical too. Just my NSHO.
