I'm a LD wife, actually make that ND. We haven't had sex since January and to be honest, I don't miss it one bit. We have been together for 13 years, neither of us has ever had sex with anyone else. My desire started diminishing probably 5 or 6 years ago, but after 2 kids (the youngest is almost 2 yo) it's gone.
I read Michelle's book (hubby is still going) and thought it was fantastic, but I still can't bring myself to have sex. I understand that my husband is really hurt, we have argued and discussed this at length, but what am I supposed to do, lay there and think of England? I have done that before and it doesn't do a relationship any favours. Sometimes I just wish he would leave and then I wouldn't have to deal with the issue.
Don't get me wrong, I do love my husband, I just don't enjoy sex, I would so much rather sleep! The cons outweigh the pros. I am really stuck with what to do, any suggestions? I can handle honest feedback, you can't say anything worse to me than my husband already has!
