tbone, you've been going through this for a long, long time. Don't know what to tell you, and I don't know what will work if anything. You are obviously not going to put up with OM and I don't blame you one bit. Seeing someone else is my absolute breaking point. You have a hard decision to make...you've talked to her before, gone to counseling, etc. You know you are being taken for granted, but the decision is still hard. Deep down, you are going to have to ask yourself how long you are willing to live this kind of life. Only you can answer that...
