Well, last night I found even more deceit and decided to ask my W a tough question. "Can you stop the lies and be 100% honest from here forward?" Seemed like a simple enough queston, right? Long pause, followed by,"I don't know". Well, that pretty much means doom for this R and her future ones as well. It's just a damn shame. I asked her how she can tell me she loves me then lie about so many things right to my face. I asked her why she hasn't filed if I make her so miserable. She said,"I love you too much to do that, it is your decision." What? She loves me too much to file but wants to see OM, spends money like water, and constantly lies to me. How do you help someone like this?