I dont think calling someone my minion is a good way to get off on the right foot TSinA. I am not a king, I have no servants.
You pick on people and wonder where they all go. With this attitude I dont think I have anything to offer you.
I am not going to address your questions on biology, they are not going to help you with your sitch.
I will comment on your sitch.
My WS makes more money than I (it is 60% her, 40% me). So what? its both of your moneys, if you believe in the partnership you claim too. Does this bother you?
I don't feel comfortable making the important decisions about her money, If you made 100% of the money would this change? how about 75% your and 25% her. Why does who makes what percentage change anything. Is it in your head or hers?
and I think she would fight that anyway do you think or know? has she ever fought you on it truly? or just made token resistance.
I don't want to fight about it anyway Under what circumstances do you want to fight? What do you argue about? Do you always give in to her? Do you ever put your foot down and say no. or jsut act passively aggressively.
So I guess if I don't act more dominant (your word), then I guess I am f*cked, since I don't want to and it doesn't feel right from inside of me, anyway.
Why dont you want to? What would feel right to you? Do things feel right currently? or do you feel out of control?
