Also had OM wife not found out after 12 years would your wife had of ended this relationship?
I have thought of that, but can't see any point to going into what might of beens. The best I can hope for is moving forward, making sure our relationship is different from what it was before, more open, my bringing up things that bother me, which I do. The MC hasn't brought up the what might have been; he may think it is important, I don't know. So far it hasn't bothered me.
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong in the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms, 1929.