TS - I have been looking at your links and your posts and now that I have read this one I understand you a little more but I do find it difficult. Due to the fact that when you are talking about your W you sound so much like many other's on these boards, also when you post on your own threads you again sound like someone going through all the processes and riding the confounded rollercoaster.
When you post on other's threads you offer great advice and offer your own opinion. When I look at your posts on NYS they seem to be from a different person.
You mention that you often feel inferior or have issues along these lines and that is fine but if that is the case I would lurk at NYS but maybe not comment, due to the fact that people do seem to take you the wrong way even though it may be unintentional by you.
I guess reading more of your posts on your own thread will slowly give me a greater insight to you. B/c I don't feel I have a handle on you yet I refrain from saying too much. These boards make it hard as you really can only go by peoples words but I like to think I have made a great connection with many people and can read their personalities through there words. With you it is a little more difficult but that is fine as we would all be rather boring if we were all the same.
As for your sitch, I see positives there from your W as at least she is prepared to help you on the job front and is asking C how she can support you and she is still at home so these all show that you can work on things. Listen to what she says about you and see what you can do to understand what she is saying or how you can meet her half way.
I hope some of this has made sense and I didn't come here to bag you out, just to try and understand you more and to offer some kind words of advice if possible.
