Quite often I try to remember that I should be a friend first and a H second. So I try to put my hurt aside and see things from her perspective. As much as possible I try to get away from blame-storming and guilt laying. So far this has made a big difference. I have to keep telling my self if I'm going to win her back I have to be her friend first. If I am her friend, would I do those things?
I'm not saying I'm perfect at that yet, but I am doing well enough that I think she is leaning towards my side of the fence fairly comfortably. In stead of wondering where it will go, it's now more a matter of when. Everyday I'm learning more to work with time. Keep posting you are helping me and I'm sure others.
