JAK,

MY ex said to me that she doesn't know where we will be in the future. All I know is that I have been in this for 7 months now. I went on antidepressants temporarily, and it did help steady me. Going to the gym was a big help for me. Keep posting here, and journaling. Give your WAW her space. Let her get a good idea of what her life is without you. It is hard, but you CAN do it. You must. Let go. I can only now say this after 6 months. I still love her, but she must be on her own for now...


M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5
no children
Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later
First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(