Hi...and welcome to our BB, you'll find quite a bit of support here.
One of the phrases I used to use with my H when he would say "sex is all you think about" is...."it may appear that way right now to you....but if you weren't getting air, you'd be thinking about it all the time too. Sex isn't all I think about, but when I'm experiencing a lack of it..it does tend to stay in the forefront of my mind."
Feel free to put your spin on that anyway you wish.
I haven't noticed anyone recommend the book "The Five Love Languages" to you yet, so I'm going to do so. You two haven't been married long at all....it's VERY possible you two aren't speaking each other's love languages, so you need to figure out what hers is and make sure you speak it. The book is a very easy read, won't take long at all...and it even comes on CD if you prefer.
Also...have you clearly communicated to her how this affects you emotionally? All too often the person on the LD side of the R doesn't see your need for sex as having anything to do with an emotional fulfillment, it appears to them sometimes as nothing more than a physical need of "YOURS", not all LD people are this way....but many do tend to forget that there are other needs fullfilled besides the physical ones when ML.
Last but not least...have you communicated to her your preferred frequency.....and are you willing to negotiate that frequency to find a middle-ground you can both agree to?
