thanks for the response, I actually had a sit down conversation with the wife this afternoon. Apparently she is feeling I am not doing enough to make her feel that I LOVE her, like backrubs, playing with her hair, buying a small gift every once in a while. I promised her I am going to make every effort to do better and make her feel more wanted. She also said that because of my anger when we do not ML it has brought her to a point of sex having a negative connotation. I've promised to help on my end by doing more to emotionally support and love her and she has promised to help on her end. We will see where this goes from here but a good sign is we actually sat down and talked without arguing about it.