We had a great time Saturday night!

Things have been going along pretty smoothly. Then today I came home and he was in a horrible mood. He went downstairs after snapping at me, so I just let him be alone. Eventually he came and apologized and said he had had a very bad day at work and was sorry he had been so grouchy.

I left then to take S11 to football and came back to make dinner. H and S9 went on the motorcycle to watch football practice and I am going to head over there after I type this.

I realized this weekend that I need to get serious about GAL of my very own! H really expects us (as a family) to do everything together, unless it is something he does on his own like hunting or playing cards with the guys. That is all well and good, but when he does those things the boys are with me. I am going to have to come up with some things to get me out of the house sometimes too. Any suggestions?

Still trying to get on a regular gym schedule. It is a real effort, but I am determined to do it!

I have a question, but not really sure how to ask. I hope this comes out right. When is the right time to approach volital subjects? Is there such a thing or do I just plan on living the rest of my life tip toeing around in this marriage? Which I will do if that is what it takes to save it.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011