yeah slowly, I know losing the resentment is something I have to work on. That is my biggest goal for right now.

Things seem very good between us. Having a little time in the evening to go to the store together (or whatever) alone is really great. We have never done much without our kids, so this is a 180 for each of us kind of.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011