Sorry to hear about your Mom, but hey, you need to lose that resentment You know whether you are there or not H will do what he wants to, right? Sounds like you have made great inroads with those goals though.
Quote: but H has insisted every night that I go to watch practice. Nice that he wants me there, but gives me no time to myself.
How has his approach tou changed since you have been going to watch practice every night? Has doing this brought you closer to your long term goals?
You know whether you are there or not H will do what he wants to, right? Sounds like you have made great inroads with those goals though. 
Slowly
