I figured I should get back here and update this thread. Sorry I have not been better about it.

Goal #1 (for me)
Going to the gym. I have not done as well with this goal as I hoped. My boys started football practice this week and they practice every night! I thought I would go to the gym during this time, but H has insisted every night that I go to watch practice. Nice that he wants me there, but gives me no time to myself.

Goal #2 (for us)
Making time alone for us.
I have done better at this. Tonight I suggested I drive the van to practice and he ride the Harley, then during practice he and I can slip away for a ride. Then he can take one of the boys home and I can take the other and all the equipment.

I did find a sitter for Saturday night and I am looking forward to that!

...and I have been very creative in the bedroom lately (if ya know what I mean)

Goal #3 (issues)
van is a mess
Did pretty good here, the van is clean and has remained relatively so for the week. Gotta keep up with this one.

I mentioned on my thread in Newcomers that my Mother is ill. I may have to go home and I resent it even crossing my mind that DH will have lots of time to "do what ever he wants" on his computer while I am gone. I should not have to worry about such, but it is my reality. I have to forget it thought and concentrate on my Mom!

Well now I better get back to my goals and start coming up with some new ones.

Thanks for reading if anyone is there


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011