H will definitely know I am going as he will be home alone with the boys in the evening. I plan to start off with three times per week.

I have actually been having some fun with doing 180's.

I am not sure what you mean by this: Now, if you were to list 2-3 'issues' with H, can you think of any 180s that might elicit a different reaction from him?

Do you mean issues that I have with him?

Thanks for your input.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011