Sara - I remember what it was like in the begining, goals and baby steps seemed so futile given the enormity of the situation. But, I did find that out of sustained change, those little things every week, we have eventually made great strides.
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I need to lose some weight (for me) and I do so enjoy going, I just seldom make the time.

This is a very good one. Do you have any targets in mind, either frequency, weight/inch loss or number of new connections? Will you tell H about this, or let him discover that you are doing something new?
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So unlike me! I know he was thrilled with our walk.


Wonderful, you pulled a 180 and saw terrific results Now, if you were to list 2-3 'issues' with H, can you think of any 180s that might elicit a different reaction from him?

I feel energized just participating on this thread - great job, Sara

Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time