Sage gave some great advice, and a good book to read. I have to add "The Five Love Languages." That book turned my thinking around, personally.

Also, I'd like to hear some of your goals. Sounds like if you were to make changes in yourself - make yourself happy. Maybe take up something you always wanted to do. Believe it or not, it works. Remember, in a relationship, if you change, the other party has no choice but to change. It's true, I've seen it first hand.

In the meantime, let's hear those goals.

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