Not sure where to begin

[NNP1965]

Hi everyone. I have been posting in the Newcomers forum, but I can not get anyone to respond to me there (well hardly anyone). Maybe this is where I should be.

My sitch is a little unique in that my H is here and not talking about leaving. But he has in the past and I believe at this time he is only here because we have two children. Not because he loves me, he has said as much. Everything "seems" to be really good between us, but I want to ensure that it "is" really good between us and stays that way.

We do not communicate very well and it is especially hard for me to bring things up while things are going so well. My biggest dream is to hear my Husband say ILU and not have any doubt that he means it.

Does anyone have any advice for me?