I'm sure you're mad about that (but you might take a moment to analyze why you are--the reason stated is because SHE didn't do what you wanted her to. And things probably weren't great between you two when you wanted to go). But my personal and NOT HUMBLE (he he) opinion is that when something should get you down it's the perfect time to not get down about it. Act as if you don't give a rip. Whose time share is it now? Both of yours? Perhaps if she went you can ask how it was looking and indicate that you want to go later (not with her). Just a thought. It's up to you whether you deal with the issue at all. I forgot about the counselor part when I wrote before. I probably wouldn't mention it either or at most say you're doing well, but will keep her in mind.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
