I agree with T. Don't read too much into the "talk later" or "talk soon". I think your definition and hers are probably quite different. I agree with the rest of her advice as well. To quote the words of Michael Jackson "start with the man in the mirror" or was it "has anyone seen my nose?"
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
