You seem to give good advise. I KNOW IT IS GOOD ADVICE BECAUSE IT IS OPPOSITE OF EVERYTHING I WANT TO DO. I always come back to the thought, well, she's not with you now so what could laying it all on the line hurt?
The fact is I know what it could hurt. I see she does care at times like my surgery or brother missing and she asks then how I am doing. I lie tell her I am fine. When I am with her, I can be pretty positive unless talking about us also. She doen't initiate anything right now and I hope that will change SOON. I am not sure if I posted part of a recent email on this thread, but she did sign off, talk soon. Maybe she has something for me on the day of surgery that she is willing to talk about. No matter if it is good bad or indifferent, it will be good to hear her say something.
I havent followed your sitch. Do you have a link? What happened that your wife became your XW? You seem to have grasped this whole do's don'ts and communication deal.
Jak466
Jak466
State Trooper: Do you feel this vehicle is safe for highway travel?
Del Griffith: Yes sir. Yes. Yes I do. I mean she may not look like much but she'll get you where you wanna go.
