Funny thought,

When I told my XW what you are considering telling your W, her words were exactly what I told you..."been there, done that". I don't anticipate that your W will have any more confidence that things would be different than my W did.


In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt