Jak,,,Your going about things all wrong.Stop.If you,ve read the db book,you'll see that the more you try ,the further they run.

Think about this for a moment.
I'm sure you've seen this before.You see a guy that treats a girl not so well.The girl says he's an a-hole.But the girl loves the guy.
In other words girls like the bad boy.The guy that traets a girl too well doesn't get the girl.Go back to elimentry school.The boy pulls the girls hair,the girl likes that boy.
My x left in 99.I've been divorced since 2001.While I was going thru the speration.I met a girl.She was hot.I treated her well,but didn't get anywhere.I met another girl that wasn't as hot.I didnt really care one way or another whether we got together or not.She would hang out with us.I would pick on her.Tease and [censored].The girl loved me.
So what I do to get girls is act like I dont care.I find something about them and make fun of them.(Pulling their hair).They love it.
Dont try so hard,Just hang out and have fun.
Now I'm not saying go to your wife and pick on physical things that she cant change.
example
I went up to a blonde.Told her she had beautiful hair.She said thanks.I then asked her how did she get that brown dye so close to her scalp?She laughed and hit my arm.I ended up getting her #.Things like that.

Have confidence in yourself.


Thrive/dont just survive Think good thoughts Hug your kids peace