Not sure I can be of much help since I am one of those persons that thinks a M requires people to treat each other with respect, love, and care. None of which sound like you've gotten. Really, I think it's easy for us to be in love with the image of what someone once was, what they could have been, or what we had together at one time. But people change, and sometimes a M just simply does not work out. To allow ourselves to be vitimized, humiliated, or treated poorly by another person in a bad relationship is just not right. You're divorced, he's in love with someone else. Accept it, move on, and then decide if it's worth holding on.
