Quote: but after 2 ½ years of trying to get him to see that he’s made a mistake, I’m beginning to wonder if I’m being foolish here. What do you guys think?
You cannot make him see HE made a mistake. As you have so accurately acknowledged, you cannot undo what has been done. You are moving forward and this is the most important part. And should you revive a NEW R with him, you will be in a better position to avoid mistakes.
But right now, he is clearly not in the position to consider a more intimate R with you. There is an R with him now. The question is, and the question we ask everyone, ourselves included, is are you willing to live with this?
Feel free to come here and vent and yell and cry and whatever.
